7 Things You’ll Be Happy You Upgraded After Your Kids Move Out
Every parent knows that having kids means de-prioritizing certain luxuries. With high inflation, college tuition and an infinity of other child-related costs, upgrading your life sounds like something only singletons do.
But when your kids finally move out — it’s time to reconsider your areas of spending.
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“As a single parent to two teens, I know firsthand how balancing financial and emotional priorities can shape family life,” said Dana Kampman, parenting expert and owner of With Teens.
Below are some things she said you’ll be happy you upgraded after your kids move out.
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Consider Staying Put or Moving
According to Kampman, the first big decision is whether to stay put or move.
“I’ve found myself thinking about what comes next,” she said, with her teens preparing to leave the home. “It’s funny how quickly the focus shifts — from making sure the house survives the whirlwind of teenage years to wondering how it can work better for me.”
She explained that for some, downsizing to a smaller, more manageable home makes sense, especially if the upkeep feels overwhelming.
“For me, I’m leaning toward staying put,” she added. “This house has memories, but there are definitely changes I want to make once it’s less, well, ‘lived-in.'”
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Plan for Pleasure and Practicality
“I bring a relatable, human perspective to my work, encouraging families to build connections, embrace new adventures and find joy in both the big moments and the small ones,” Kampman said.
If you’re thinking about upgrading your home after the kids are gone, she said it’s the perfect time to focus on things that make life easier and more enjoyable.
“Aging doesn’t mean you have to stop enjoying your space–it just means thinking ahead,” she added.
Upgrade Your Bathroom Spa
“I’ve always loved the idea of turning the bathroom into a retreat, but with teens in the house, the thought of sharing a fancy jetted tub or pristine walk-in shower makes me laugh,” Kampman said.
“Once the house is quieter, I’d love to add a walk-in shower with a seat — it’s great for aging, but honestly, it’s just as nice for a relaxing rinse after a long day,” she explained. “Double sinks? Yes, please. It’s practical and feels wonderfully indulgent.”
Create an Arts and Crafts Space
“Right now, I don’t have the room to set up a dedicated crafting area, but I’ve always wanted one,” Kampman explained.
She said painting, sewing or even just wrapping gifts without having to clear the dining table would be a dream.
“Once the kids are out, I’ll have the space to make it happen — and maybe the quiet to enjoy it,” she added.
Buy a Robot Vacuum
“If there’s one thing I won’t miss, it’s picking up after my teens,” Kampman said.
She shared that investing in a good robot vacuum feels like a little gift to herself.
“It’s not just about the cleaning — it’s about reclaiming time to do things I actually enjoy,” she explained.
Invest In Lounge Furniture
“After years of wear and tear, replacing the living room furniture is high on my list,” Kampman said. “The current couch has survived juice spills, snack crumbs and more movie nights than I can count. I’d love to upgrade to something more luxurious — a place where I can truly relax.”
When choosing new pieces, she said it’s worth thinking about comfort and durability for the long haul.
“Features like firm cushions, easy-to-clean fabrics or even slightly higher seating can make a big difference as the years go by,” she said, “ensuring the furniture stays functional and enjoyable.”
Start Small, Think Big
The idea isn’t to overhaul everything at once, Kampman said.
“It’s about gradually turning your home into a space that feels like yours again — comfortable, functional and built to support the next stage of life,” she added. “For now, I’m keeping a mental list (and avoiding upgrades that my teens might accidentally wreck). But as they spread their wings, I’m excited to create a space that works for me — and keeps the door open for them to visit, of course.”
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