Scots least likely in the UK to enter long-distance relationships, study reveals
Valentine's Day is just round the corner, and you may be looking forward to spending a special day with your partner. But what if your boo was a long train or even plane ride away?
A new study by Trainline has revealed that Scots are the least likely to go for long-distance relationships when compared to the rest of the UK.
In fact, a staggering 43 per cent of Scots said travel costs would put them off a long-distance relationship, which was 10 per cent higher than the UK average. And even more surprising was that 5 per cent of Scottish daters said distance was the reason their relationship ended.
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Meanwhile, 22 per cent of Scots said the hassle of organising travel had discouraged them from long-distance relationships, and 13 per cent cited it as a contributing factor in their breakup, which is well above the UK average of 9 per cent.
Julia, 23, met her boyfriend when they were both at university in the same city. But after they graduated a year ago, the couple were forced apart as Julia moved home to Ayr and her boyfriend pursued further studies in Oxford.
Struggling to find a job post-university and unable to leave home due to the high cost of living, the graduate is also having to travel last-minute to London for unpredictable job interviews as well as put time and effort into her long-distance relationship.
It’s putting a strain on her wallet as well as her relationship, with the couple unable to spend time together. But like most of Gen-Z, tech has become their lifeline, and they have been able to use social media and FaceTime to stay in contact as much as possible.
Julia said: "In the beginning the thought of long distance was really daunting - it makes spontaneity harder, and the costs of travel can add up. And it doesn't help that I'm also looking for a job so having to commute to do interviews can be unpredictable at times.
"In spite of all of this, we've found ways to make it work. We stay connected every day thanks to social media, and make an effort to plan travel far ahead of time using Trainline so we always know when the next time we're seeing each other is.
"My birthday is on Valentine's Day so he's coming on the train this weekend, and I've already booked my train down south for my next trip to make sure I get the best deal. My biggest piece of advice for anyone in a long-distance relationship is to plan ahead. Not only does it save money, but it also gives you something to look forward to—making the time apart feel shorter."
Staying connected with loved ones can be a challenge in Scotland, as our country is made up of many rural communities that are hard to reach, as well as its easier-to-navigate cities.
Psychologist Dr Linda Papadopoulos said: "While Scotland is known as a hotspot for romantic countryside getaways, for those living in its more remote communities or studying at top universities far from home, staying connected with loved ones can be a challenge.
"This makes it extra taxing for those considering long-distance relationships - but with the right mindset, they can actually make a relationship stronger.
"Planning ahead on travel to save money and hassle, setting aside dedicated communication time and making those reunions extra special are key to keeping the connection alive – and travelling by train is a fantastic way to make those journeys as pain-free as possible.
“Online tools and hacks like Trainline’s app can help reduce planning stresses so you can focus on what really matters — each other. Love isn’t just about proximity; it’s about effort, intention and making the moments together count - so don’t let the distance derail something special.”
