Your Love Horoscope for December: Sparks, Surprises and a Little Holiday Romance
Astrologer Valerie Mesa shares your horoscope for the month of December
December has arrived, and the holiday season is in full swing. While celebrating and basking in the festivities, your love horoscope invites you to pause and reconsider your approach to romantic relationships.
Whether you’re cozying up under the mistletoe or reminiscing on the past, the cosmos encourages you to reflect on your heart’s desires as we close out another year.
The month kicked off with a new moon in Sagittarius, encouraging us to dream big in love — think spontaneous weekend trips or sending that text you’ve been too shy to send.
However, while it’s the perfect time to take a leap of faith, Jupiter retrograde (Sagittarius’ ruler) reminds us to reconsider the bigger picture in our relationships. What do you truly want, and are you on the right path?
On Dec. 2, Venus in Capricorn will harmonize with Uranus retrograde in Taurus, leading to an unexpected spark that could get your mojo going — maybe a quirky connection with someone who isn’t your usual type or an unplanned detour in a connection that feels surprisingly right.
Shortly after, the sun will join forces with Mercury retrograde in Sagittarius — creating a Mercury Cazimi — offering the perfect moment to revisit a past connection or have a conversation that’s been long overdue.
Whatever it is, expect deep, insightful conversations that reveal more than you planned.
Then, Mars stations retrograde in Leo on Dec. 6, and suddenly, you’re looking back at your previous actions and romantic connections. Have you been too eager to impress? Or are you playing it cool?
Mars retrograde encourages introspection around passion, desire and the way you express yourself in relationships — do you let your heart lead or have you been too reserved? Consider how much energy you’re putting into your love life and whether it’s being reciprocated.
On Dec. 7, Venus enters Aquarius, making things a little more... unpredictable. Unconventional love interests might start showing up — hello, mystery, you quirky, irresistible thing.
Venus will also join forces with Pluto in Aquarius that same day. This powerful conjunction invites us to dig deep into the emotional undercurrents of love, revealing the truths we might have been avoiding.
Although the essence of Aquarius lends an air of rebellion to this transit, it’s a time for vulnerability, raw truths and transformative conversations.
With Neptune stationing direct on the same day, get ready for that magical moment when your intuition finally clicks, and you understand exactly what your heart wants.
That fuzzy “Are we on the same page?” feeling might finally dissolve into clarity, and you'll know whether to take things further or call it a day.
The full moon in Gemini on Dec. 15 turns up the heat on communication — you’ll say all the things you’ve been holding back, whether it's confessions, long-awaited texts or awkward heart-to-hearts that somehow turn out better than expected.
Mercury also stations direct that same day, finally clearing up the miscommunications that have been keeping you on edge.
As the sun enters Capricorn on Dec. 21, the vibe takes on a more serious tone — think commitment and long-term investments. Fortunately, the new moon in Capricorn on Dec. 30 is the perfect opportunity to set intentions for your love life in the new year.
Ready to build something that lasts? The cosmos is giving you the green light.
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Aries (March 21-April 19)
Take a walk on the wild side, Aries.
December starts with a burst of energy as the new moon in Sagittarius on Dec. 1 activates your ninth house, encouraging you to step outside your comfort zone — whether it’s taking a spontaneous trip or engaging in deep, philosophical conversations with your crush.
Also, with Jupiter retrograde in your third house, reflecting on how you communicate in relationships is pivotal unless you prefer to revisit past conversations that lack closure.
On Dec. 2, Venus in Capricorn trines Uranus retrograde in Taurus, bringing unexpected changes to your 10th house of career and second house of values. This could lead to surprise romantic encounters or a shift in your approach to balancing work and love.
Shortly after, a Mercury retrograde Cazimi offers clarity around past relationships or unresolved issues, especially those related to long-distance connections or shared belief systems. A chance to clear the air could lead to a fresh start — speak your truth!
On Dec. 6, Mars (your celestial ruler) will retrograde in Leo, prompting you to rethink your approach to love and passion. Reflect on whether you're staying true to your desires or if it’s time to reassess the dynamic of your romantic exchanges.
Venus enters Aquarius on Dec. 7, shifting your focus to your 11th house of friendships and long-term goals. Expect unconventional connections or deep, transformative conversations, especially with friends or new romantic interests, especially with Pluto in the mix!
The full moon in Gemini on Dec. 15 illuminates your third house of communication, encouraging you to express your emotions and clear up any misunderstandings in your love life. Mercury stations direct that same day, improving communication, especially in relationships that involve travel and logistics.
On Dec. 21, the sun slips into Capricorn, shifting the focus to your career and long-term investments, where you may seek a partner who aligns with your ambitions. Be sure to look to the new moon in Capricorn (Dec. 30), as it is a perfect time to set intentions for the new year.
Manifest the commitment you seek.
Taurus (April 20-May 20)
Explore the depth of your connections with courage and confidence, Taurus.
December begins with a new moon in Sagittarius, activating your eighth house of intimacy, shared resources and transformation. Consider this an opportunity to deepen your emotional connections, whether through more intimacy or simply letting go of past baggage.
With Jupiter retrograde activating your second house of possessions, you may also reassess what you truly cherish and value in a romantic relationship.
On Dec. 2, your celestial ruler, Venus, will join Uranus retrograde in your sign, bringing unexpected changes and opportune disruptions. This could lead to new romantic connections that challenge your usual type or perhaps spark a desire for adventure with your current partner.
Shortly after, Mars retrograde will shake up your fourth house of home and family, inviting you to reflect on how your personal life impacts your love life. How can you create more space for love to flourish?
A Mercury retrograde Cazimi on Dec. 5 highlights your eighth house, encouraging you to revisit conversations from the past to gain clarity on the foundation of your connection. A breakthrough in understanding could pave the way for deeper intimacy.
Venus slips into Aquarius on Dec. 7, joining powerhouse Pluto in your 10th house of authority. This could intensify your desire to pursue a long-term relationship while simultaneously unveiling a deeper desire in your love life.
On Dec. 15, a full moon in Gemini touches down on your stability-seeking second house of security and comfort. Reflect on your desires and values, even if that means clarifying things in your current relationship.
It’s also a great time to release outdated patterns around money and love, especially with Mercury stationing direct on the same day.
Then, on Dec. 21, the sun will debut in Capricorn, activating your ninth house of expansion and self-discovery, and inspiring you to explore other horizons in your love life.
With a new moon in the same sign on Dec. 30, it’s an excellent opportunity to set intentions that align with your personal growth and long-term goals.
Gemini (May 21-June 20)
Your philosophy on relationships is shifting in a big way, Gemini.
December began with the new moon in Sagittarius on Dec. 1, activating your seventh house of partnerships and contractual agreements. While this was a great time to set intentions for love, Jupiter retrograde in your sign simultaneously reminds you to reconsider your approach.
Shortly after, the sun will join forces with Mercury retrograde (your celestial ruler) in Sagittarius, encouraging you to revisit important conversations and exchanges in your one-on-one connections.
This Mercury Cazimi could clarify unresolved issues with a significant other or inspire a brand-new approach to communication.
Also, with Mars retrograde in Leo as of Dec. 6 — your third house of communication and immediate surroundings — you’re being called to reconsider everything from your love language to your self-expression, particularly regarding matters of love and romance.
The following day, Venus will slip into Aquarius — your ninth house of expansion and self-discovery — highlighting unconventional relationships and new ways of relating to romantic partners.
This could potentially challenge your worldview, especially with Venus joining forces with Pluto that same day. This intensifies your connections with others, transforming your approach to love regarding shared beliefs, travel and long-term goals.
Fast forward to Dec. 15, when the moon peaks in your sign, which urges you to express your authenticity in love. In addition to illuminating truths, this is a powerful moment to release outdated relationship patterns that no longer resonate with you.
Mercury stations direct that same day, allowing communication to flow smoothly in your one-on-one relationships. Expect resolutions to any misunderstandings and a new-found clarity on how to move forward with a significant other.
Upon the sun’s debut in Capricorn on Dec. 21, expect more emphasis on your intimate unions, shared resources and emotional connections. This is followed by a new moon in the same sign (Dec. 30), offering a fresh start in your love life.
Pave the way for a positive and transformative year in your relationships.
Cancer (June 21-July 22)
Here’s to more spontaneity and adventure in your day-to-day life, Cancer.
December kicked off with a new moon in Sagittarius on Dec. 1, activating your responsible sixth house of daily rituals, health habits and work routines.
Reflect on how your everyday life and self-care impact your love life. Remember, with Jupiter retrograde in your 12th, these could be unconscious patterns that have been inhibiting you or on the dark side, self-sabotage that’s been hindering your relationships.
On Dec. 2, Venus in Capricorn joined forces with Uranus retrograde in Taurus, bringing unexpected changes to your seventh house of partnerships and 11th house of associations, and future visions.
Unconventional relationships could arise from your social circles or perhaps an unexpected source that brings excitement to your love life.
On Dec. 6, Mars will station retrograde in Leo, activating your stability-seeking second house of money, possessions and sensual pleasures, encouraging you to reflect on your heart’s desires and values in relationships.
Do you feel in alignment with your significant other? If single, what are you hoping to manifest? Consider what compliments your sense of stability.
The following day, Venus will enter Aquarius, joining forces with Pluto in your eighth house of intimacy, transformation and shared resources.
Deep emotional connections take center stage at this time, which may result in a significant shift in how you relate to others in a romantic or intimate sense.
Expect deep, revealing conversations that change the course of your love life.
That same day, Neptune stations direct in Pisces (your ninth house of expansion), offering clarity on your beliefs and how they influence your love life and romantic experiences as a whole.
The moon will peak in Gemini on Dec. 15, shaking up your 12th house of closure, dreams and all things behind the scenes, presenting you with an opportunity to surrender, heal and release baggage from the past.
Are you ready to close this emotional chapter?
On Dec. 21, the sun enters Capricorn, bringing your focus to partnerships and your seventh house of significant others. You may find yourself seeking deeper commitment or new beginnings in love.
There will be a new moon in the same sign on Dec. 30, offering a fresh start in your love life, making it a perfect time to set intentions for growth and transformation in your romantic connections.
Leo (July 23-Aug. 22)
Risks on your self-expression and romantic affairs are worth taking this month, Leo.
December kicked off with a new moon in Sagittarius, activating your fifth house of love, passion and pleasure, making it a perfect time to embrace new romantic opportunities or even rekindle the spark within an existing relationship.
That said, it’s important to consider Jupiter retrograde in Gemini — transiting your 11th house of friendships and social networks — as you could reconsider your role in a social setting and whether it aligns with your love life.
On Dec. 5, the sun will conjunct Mercury retrograde in Sagittarius — triggering a Mercury Cazimi — in your fifth house of love, making it an excellent time to clear up misunderstandings in a romantic connection or perhaps even rekindle a past love.
Brace yourself for Mars retrograde, as the red planet will station retrograde in your sign on Dec. 6, prompting you to reflect on your identity and approach to love and romance.
Everything from your heart’s desires to your actions is under the spotlight. Take this time to reconsider how you express yourself and whether you’re being true to your heart.
It doesn’t end there — Venus enters Aquarius on Dec. 7, activating your seventh house of commitments and significant others. This brings fresh, unconventional energy to your relationships.
However, with Venus joining Pluto later that day, the deepening of a connection could lead to a profound transformation in your love life.
To top it off, Neptune will station direct in Pisces that same day — shaking up your eighth house of intimate unions and shared resources — lifting the fog and bringing some much-needed clarity to similar themes.
A full-circle moment arrives on Dec. 15, as the moon peaks in Gemini and your 11th house of associations, community affairs and individual freedom. Everything from your social networks to your sense of belonging in the world is highlighted.
Mercury stations direct later that day, clearing up misunderstandings and mishaps in your love life.
Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22)
How has your early upbringing and personal foundation impacted your love life, Virgo?
The month began with a new moon in Sagittarius, shaking up your fourth house of home, family and emotional foundations. This occurred all while Jupiter retrogrades in Gemini and your 10th house of career, authority and reputation in the world.
On Dec. 2, Venus in Capricorn also danced with Uranus retrograde in Taurus, bringing unexpected sparks and excitement to your fifth house of love, passion and self-expression.
You could’ve found yourself drawn to someone who challenges your usual relationship patterns, finding new excitement through creative endeavors.
On Dec. 5, your celestial ruler, Mercury, will join the sun in a Mercury Cazimi, activating your fourth house of home, family and inner peace. It’s a great time to clear up confusion and misunderstandings, perhaps related to home and family, that could’ve been affecting your romantic connections.
To take it a step further, Mars will station retrograde in Leo on Dec. 6 — shaking up your 12th house of closure, healing and unconscious patterns — which is also an invitation to reconsider how your residual energies in your subconscious influence your love life.
On Dec. 7, Venus will debut in Aquarius, dazzling your sixth house of health habits and work routines. This could bring a new, unconventional approach to how you balance love and responsibility.
Later that day, Venus conjuncts Pluto in Aquarius, intensifying your connections, particularly those that involve work or self-improvement.
To top it off, Neptune will station direct in Pisces — your seventh house of relationships and significant others — helping you clarify your relationship dynamics and what you truly need in love.
On Dec. 15, Luna will peak in Gemini, illuminating your 10th house of authority, and urging you to reflect on your work-life balance and whether your romantic partnerships support your professional endeavors.
Mercury stations direct that same day, improving communication, especially around family and emotional matters.
Upon the sun’s ingress into Capricorn on Dec. 21, your fifth house of love and romance becomes illuminated, encouraging you to embrace new ways of connecting and pursuing your heart’s desires.
Look to the new moon in Capricorn shortly after, as it offers a fresh start in your love life. Set intentions for a new romantic venture or perhaps reignite the spark in an existing relationship.
Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 22)
Open your heart and mind — opportunities for love and romance are afoot, Libra!
December kicked off with a new moon in Sagittarius, igniting your curious third house of communication, short trips and immediate surroundings, making it a great time to explore new horizons in your love life.
Whether via heart-to-heart conversations or bonding with someone over shared ideas, this lunation (along with the influence of Jupiter retrograde) may have you reassessing your beliefs around love and relationships, specifically with connections at a distance.
On Dec. 2, Venus in Capricorn joined forces with Uranus retrograde in Taurus, bringing unexpected developments and disruptions in your love life.
This could mean a surprising shift in your personal life or a transformative moment in a romantic relationship, especially if there’s emotional vulnerability.
Shortly after, the sun will conjunct Mercury retrograde — creating a Mercury Cazimi — in your third house of communication and immediate surroundings. This is a chance to clear the air, and clarify misunderstandings in your relationship.
On Dec. 6, Mars (celestial ruler of your relationship sector) will station retrograde, encouraging you to reflect on your social networks, friendship groups and long-term visions.
How are your social networks affecting your love life? Is this a positive influence, or is it time to make changes?
On Dec. 7, your celestial ruler, Venus, enters Aquarius — your fifth house of love, passion and self-expression — bringing an air of unpredictability and excitement to your love life.
Venus will join forces with powerhouse Pluto later that day, deepening your emotional connection to a lover or crush, perhaps even resulting in a transformative experience.
Expect a full-circle moment on Dec. 15, as the moon will peak in Gemini and illuminate your ninth house of expansion and self-discovery. This is a good time to release outdated views that could hinder your relationships.
After the sun enters Capricorn on Dec. 21 — activating your fourth house of home, family and emotional foundations — the moon will renew itself in the same sign on Dec. 30, offering a fresh start when it comes to matters of the heart.
It’s a great time to set intentions for creating a loving and secure foundation in your relationships moving into the new year.
Scorpio (Oct. 23-Nov. 21)
You are worth so much more than you give yourself credit for, Scorpio.
The month kicked off on an optimistic note as the moon renewed itself in Sagittarius, activating your second house of money, comfort and self-worth on Dec. 1.
A wonderful time to set intentions around what you value in your love life, it’s time to reflect on what you’re ready to attract into your life. Meanwhile, with Jupiter retrograde in Gemini, your emotional and financial connections with others are highlighted.
Love planet Venus also joined Uranus retrograde in your relationship sector on Dec. 2, bringing unexpected conversations and a new-found perspective around a romantic connection.
Shortly after, Mercury retrograde will join the sun in a Mercury Cazimi, shaking up your second house of comfort, finances and values.
In addition to being a time to revisit issues that could be lingering from the past, a moment of clarity around your sense of security is also likely.
On Dec. 6, your traditional ruler, Mars, will station retrograde in Leo, shaking up your 10th house of authority, and prompting you to re-evaluate your career goals and how they influence your love life.
Reflect on how you balance work with love and what changes may need to happen to create more harmony.
On Dec. 7, Venus enters Aquarius, shifting your focus to your 4th house of home and family. You could feel the need for more emotional security in your love life or within a home environment.
Venus will also conjunct your modern ruler, Pluto, later that day, deepening your connections and possibly prompting a transformative shift in your love life or within a family dynamic.
That same day, Neptune will station direct in Pisces — your fifth house of love, passion and self-expression — bringing clarity to your romantic longings and desires.
Keep in mind, in addition to Mercury direct, the moon will peak in Gemini on Dec. 15, activating your eighth house of intimacy, shared resources and transformation.
This lunation could bring important revelations around emotional bonds and shared commitments in your love life.
On Dec. 21, the sun enters Capricorn, shifting your focus to your third house of communication and immediate surroundings. This is a great time to express yourself more openly in your relationships, specifically around your future plans and investments.
Look to the new moon in the same sign on Dec. 30, as it offers a fresh start in this area of your life. Set intentions for more meaningful connections and conversations.
Sagittarius (Nov. 22–Dec. 21)
Happy birthday — cheers to more love on this solar return, Sagittarius!
December began with a new moon in your sign, offering a fresh start in your Mutable territory, specifically regarding your identity and sense of self.
It’s a powerful time to set intentions around how you present yourself in love and relationships. Remember, with your celestial ruler, Jupiter, retrograde in Gemini — your relationship sector — you’re encouraged to reflect on past relationships and what you truly need in a partner.
On Dec. 5, the sun will join forces with Mercury retrograde in your sign — Mercury Cazimi — bringing clarity around your personal desires in love and romance. This transit is ideal for revisiting old conversations or reflecting on your overall approach.
The following day, Mars will station retrograde in Leo — your ninth house of expansion and self-discovery – prompting you to reflect on everything from your belief systems on love to whether your romantic connections align with your personal philosophies.
It’s also a good time to reconsider your approach to long-distance or cross-cultural connections. Are either of you willing to meet each other halfway?
On Dec. 7, Venus enters Aquarius, charming your third house of communication and immediate surroundings. You may find yourself drawn to unconventional ways of expressing your feelings in love or having more open, intellectual conversations with a significant other.
Later that day, Venus joins Pluto, deepening conversations and potentially transforming your perception of a romantic connection.
On Dec. 15, the moon will peak in Gemini, illuminating your seventh house of committed partnerships and urging you to release outdated patterns and beliefs in your one-on-one relationships.
Mercury will station direct in your sign that same day, helping you make sense of a romantic connection or relationship dynamic.
On Dec. 21, the Sun enters Capricorn, bringing focus to your second house of values and self-worth, encouraging you to consider what you truly desire and need in a relationship to feel secure.
Look to the new moon in Capricorn (Dec. 30) to set intentions around this matter, as this lunation offers a fresh start to lay down a solid foundation.
Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19)
Take a step back to heal, decompress and re-assess your situation, Capricorn.
December kicked off with a new moon in Sagittarius, activating your 12th house of closure, dreams and all things behind the scenes, making it an ideal time to reflect on your past and release emotional baggage that could hold you back from embracing love fully.
With Jupiter also retrograde in Gemini — your sixth house of health and daily routines — it’s important to consider how your habits impact your relationships and whether your routines are up to par with your romantic desires.
On Dec. 2, Venus (in your sign) joined forces with Uranus retrograde in Taurus, bringing unexpected shifts to your romantic connections and how you’re approaching these opportunities.
You could have an epiphany on Dec. 5 as the sun joins forces with Mercury retrograde (a Mercury Cazimi) in your intuitive 12th house of healing, triggering a significant breakthrough.
This is a great time for self-reflection or having deep, insightful conversations that help you clear any lingering confusion in your love life.
Shortly after, Mars will station retrograde in Leo — your eighth house of intimate affairs and shared resources — inviting you to reflect on your emotional bonds and how you approach passion in these romantic affairs.
On Dec. 7, Venus slips into Aquarius and your second house of finances, comfort and security, shifting your focus to themes surrounding investments and values.
The love planet, however, will join forces with Pluto later that day, deepening your understanding of love and stability, perhaps regarding material possessions or emotional security.
Expect a full-circle moment around the health of your relationships during the full moon in Gemini on Dec. 15. This is a good time to release old habits or beliefs that no longer serve you and your love life.
The sun enters your sign on Dec. 21, energizing and revitalizing you. In addition to celebrating your solar return, it’s a great time to re-evaluate your approach to relationships and how you express your romantic needs.
With the moon renewing itself in your sign on Dec. 30, you’ll want to set intentions for the year ahead, particularly around your approach to love, self-expression and personal growth.
Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 18)
Gather with friends and family for the holiday festivities — you never know who you may encounter, Aquarius.
December kicked off with a bountiful new moon in Sagittarius, activating your socially conscious 11th house of associations and community.
This is ideal for setting intentions around love and connection with others in your social circle or pursuing new romantic opportunities through group efforts.
Remember, with Jupiter retrograde in Gemini (your fifth house of romance and self-expression), it’s important to reflect on whether your past is currently influencing your desires in the love department.
On Dec. 5, the sun will join forces with Mercury retrograde (Mercury Cazimi) in Sagittarius, shaking up your 11th house of community affairs. This is a great time to clear up misunderstandings and make sense of unresolved feelings in relationships with friends or romantic partners.
The next day, Mars will station retrograde in Leo — your relationship sector — inviting you to reflect on your one-on-one partnerships and romantic commitments.
Ironically, this is followed by Venus’ dazzling debut in your sign on Dec. 7, heightening your charisma and powers of persuasion while enlightening you with insight and perspective on your romantic expression.
However, brace yourself — Venus will join Pluto in your sign, adding a layer of intensity and passion to your romantic encounters, which could simultaneously trigger powerful transformations around your perception of love and intimacy.
Neptune will also station direct in Pisces — your 2nd house of values — lifting the fog and helping you gain clarity on what you truly value in love and what makes you feel secure.
On Dec. 15, the moon will peak in Gemini, illuminating your fifth house of love and self-expression while encouraging you to let go of outdated ideas and beliefs around romance and your heart’s desires.
It’s a powerful time to embrace new, freer forms of self-expression in your love life.
Pisces (Feb. 19-March 20)
Consider the bigger picture of your romantic relationships, Pisces.
December began on a happy-go-lucky note as the moon renewed itself in bountiful Sagittarius and your 10th house of authority and career.
Although it was a great time to set intentions around your professional goals and how they align with your love life, the influence of Jupiter retrograde in Gemini should not be undermined.
Does your personal life (or family dynamics) support the romantic partnership you seek?
On Dec. 5, the sun will conjunct Mercury retrograde (creating a Mercury Cazimi) in Sagittarius and your 10th house of professional endeavors, offering enlightenment and clarity around your long-term goals and how they align with your romantic affairs.
This could be in terms of logistics or a long-overdue conversation with a significant other, as your long-term goals suddenly come into focus.
The deep dive continues — Mars station retrograde in Leo on Dec. 6, inviting you to reflect on how your health habits and daily routines impact your love life. Take this time to reconsider your work-life balance and make the necessary adjustments.
As if this wasn’t enough introspection, Venus debuts in Aquarius on Dec. 7, activating your 12th house of secrets and unconscious patterns, encouraging you to pause and reflect on your past relationships, specifically those you have yet to heal from.
That same day, Neptune will station direct in your sign, bringing clarity to personal themes after months of uncertainty. This is especially true when it comes to the way you approach your desires and express your romantic needs.
The moon peaks in Gemini on Dec. 15, illuminating your fourth house of home and family — it’s time to go within and make peace with emotional baggage that could be hindering your love life.
On Dec. 21, the sun enters Capricorn, activating your 11th house of friendships, social connections and long-term goals, followed by a new moon in the same sign on Dec. 30.
Consider this a fresh start, as it is an excellent time to manifest long-lasting connections and set intentions for strengthening existing relationships within your social circles.
The sky’s the limit.
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