Woman Lashes Out at Husband After Mother-in-Law's Unauthorized Home Makeover

A woman is seeking support from the Reddit community after a recent incident involving her mother-in-law’s boundary-crossing behavior in her home while she was away on a business trip.

“While I was away, my husband’s mom stayed at our house for a few days,” the woman explains in a Reddit post. “She lives in another city, so this was a temporary visit.” During this time, the mother-in-law reportedly complained about changes made to the home’s décor in the time the son and daughter-in-law had been together.

But this wasn’t the first time her mother-in-law had engaged in this behavior. The woman recounts a previous visit during which she “woke up to find her cleaning and reorganizing (even though the house was already clean).” At the time, the poster addressed the issue and asked her husband to establish clear boundaries, she writes.

However, the most recent incident proved to be far more invasive. Upon returning from her business trip, the woman discovered that her mother-in-law had taken it upon herself to completely reorganize the house.

The events occurred while her husband was at work the day before the woman returned. “My closet, my makeup, his clothes, the pantry—she even switched the carpets in the room!” the woman exclaims.

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His mother was meant to leave but decided to take on the DIY project instead. She even texted her son a picture of some new carpets she intended to purchase for the couple.

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Before speaking with her, the woman talked with her husband about the situation, telling him it was up to him to address the situation.

“I told him that his mom is no longer welcome in our house unless I’m there. If I’m traveling and he wants to see her, he can visit her instead. I was so upset that I made him call her and tell her she crossed a major boundary,” she recalls telling her husband.

Ultimately, he agreed to speak with his mom. During the call with his mother, he reminded her “she’s just a guest and has no right to make changes in our home.” In response, the mother-in-law became emotional, explaining that since losing her husband last March, she has been feeling useless and simply wanted to help.

While the mother-in-law's actions were likely well-intentioned, the woman believes she overstepped multiple times and contends that something needed to be done.

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Many Redditors sided with the poster about the boundaries, but thought she should cut her husband some slack.

“You shouldn’t be angry at your husband,” one user wrote, adding, “From what you said he supported you and told off his mother. However, you are not overreacting to your MIL for her actions.” Another wrote, “She needs to find a hobby, and it's not redoing your house!”

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