Stacey Solomon gets new puppy after loss of dog: How to deal with pet bereavement

Watch: Stacey Solomon welcomes baby girl at home in Pickle Cottage

Stacey Solomon, 32, has adopted a new puppy just weeks after the loss of family dog Theo - seemingly to help her family cope with the grief.

The television presenter and singer admitted she's "not sure who has rescued who," also hinting at that their remaining dog, Peanut, was in need of a companion too.

Solomon posted a series of photos on Instagram, one outside 'Pickle Cottage' ('pickle' being what she affectionately calls her children), holding the new puppy Teddy in one arm and Peanut in the other.

Others snaps included her son Rex, two, who previously had a special bond with Theo. smiling while hugging the new addition to the family.

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Her caption reads, "Welcome Home Teddy. Last night we rescued a dog. But today I'm not sure who has rescued who. We miss you so much Theo. I hope you're looking down from heaven smiling, knowing that peanut will no longer be so very lonely and that a doggy who really needed a family now has one. To the moon and back, always."

Solomon revealed she had lost her dog of 11 years Theo at the end of last year. The star already owned him when she met partner Joe Swash, 39. She opened up about how much it had affected her and her family, sons Zachary, 13, and Leighton, nine, along with Rex and baby Rose, born on 4 October.

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LONDON, ENGLAND - NOVEMBER 17: Stacey Solomon with her sons Rex Swash and Leighton Barham attend the
Stacey Solomon's late dog Theo had a huge impact on her sons throughout the years (Getty Images)

She posted various memories of her and her sons with Theo from over the years, writing, "The best friend we could have ever wished for. Our hearts are broken. Yesterday at home in our arms we had to say goodnight to our Theo. 11 wonderful years. We were so lucky to love you Fifi and we will never stop. My lap has never felt so empty 😞 I miss you so much already. My little girl."

She also went on to acknowledge the great impact Theo had on their lives, thanking her for "protecting me and the boys when we needed it most," for "holding on for so long and waiting to meet your little sister Rose," and saying "Rex has had the best friend in you that he could ever have wished for and the boys have had the best protector in the whole wide world". She also added, "Peanut is missing his cuddle buddy very much so we are trying to make it up to him in our cuddles but I know it’s just not the same".

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LONDON, ENGLAND - NOVEMBER 12: Joe Swash and Stacey Solomon attend the ITV Palooza 2019 at The Royal Festival Hall on November 12, 2019 in London, England. (Photo by Lia Toby/Getty Images)
Joe Swash and Stacey Solomon at the ITV Palooza at The Royal Festival Hall, London, November, 2019 (Getty Images)

For many, the grief of losing a pet can feel just as real as the grief of losing a person, as they become another family member, bonding with children, being a permanent companion for adults, and forming real attachments. But with some viewing the loss as 'just a pet', it can be hard for some to cope emotionally.

How can we deal with pet bereavement, when is it too soon to get a new one - and how best can parents talk to their children about the death of a beloved pet?

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Pet bereavement is very real and can be just as hard to deal with as other types of grief (Getty Images)

"Everyone is different when it comes to grieving, but realising it is normal helps," says Diane James, Manager at Blue Cross Pet Bereavement Support Service (PBSS), "especially when it comes to our beloved animals, it can help to talk about the loss and how you are feeling - often people feel unable to talk to family or friends.

"The time frame will be different for us all - and we will experience many different emotions, often guilt, and even anger."

James suggests, "Often, memorialising can help, from planting in the garden in their favourite spot, to having a keepsake made from their blanket."

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Diane James, Manager at Blue Cross Pet Bereavement Support Service (PBSS), recommends a keep safe to help with the loss of a pet (Getty Images

As for welcoming a new pet, she adds, "getting a new pet has to be a group decision, discussed by all. It's important to recognise that it’s a new personality and will be loved for that - not a replacement."

James adds, "Again, we are all different, some may re-home a pet very quickly, others take time and for some, it's never again. "I comes down to what is best for you and your family unit.

"We often hear people say they are too old and they will be outlived by the pet. If you are happily able to look after a new pet, know we have schemes such as Pet Peace of Mind - so if this sadly happens, we will take in the pet."

She also explains that when other pets are involved its important they are considered as well.

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Is it too soon to get a new pet after the loss of another? (Getty Images)

And touching on how best to speak to children, she says, "The best policy is honesty. It is age dependent of course, most children are more resilient that we realise, so there's no point in saying they have gone to live on a farm or run away, which many will think is kinder, but then makes the child feel guilty or worried.

"Also remember not to say 'put to sleep', as this can make them worry about going to sleep."

James also stresses the importance of preparation, where possible - "things like a scrapbook or memory box can be things you do together and discuss the loss. You may have some awkward questions, but be as honest as you can be."

Blue Cross has a free pet bereavement service and pet loss service, which allows people to open up about their loss, with support offered via phone, email, web chat or a Facebook site.

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