How seniors can stay independent when it’s time to stop driving

Older Americans live about 7 years longer than they can safely do this one everyday task — how to figure out if you’re at risk and adjust on your own terms
Older Americans live about 7 years longer than they can safely do this one everyday task — how to figure out if you’re at risk and adjust on your own terms

Getting a driver’s license at 16 is a dream for many American teens. After months of practice with a learner’s permit, they take a test with an instructor who determines whether they’re ready for the road. If they pass, they get their license — and off they go.

For older Americans, the experience happens in reverse. Their vehicle provides independence, allowing them to attend social events, doctor’s appointments, grocery runs and visits with loved ones. But driving in old age carries increasing risks. Reaction times slow, and distractions become more challenging. How safe is it?

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According to automotive services provider AAA, 85-90% of Americans aged 65 and older will be licensed to drive by 2030. However, many outlive their safe driving years by 7-10 years, prompting growing attention to what AAA calls “driving retirement.”

Knowing when it’s time to stop driving

The worst-case scenario for an older driver is a serious accident. While the overall rate of fatal crashes decreases with age, drivers 75 and older experience a rise in fatal crashes, according to the National Safety Council — largely due to increased physical fragility.

However, a serious crash isn’t always the first sign it’s time to hang up the keys.

Older drivers may experience warning signs such as difficulty reading road signs, confusion with directions, slower reaction times and frequent near-misses. Additionally, health conditions and medications can impair driving ability.

Despite these risks, many seniors avoid discussing their driving struggles with loved ones due to embarrassment and fear of losing their independence. Unfortunately, avoiding the conversation increases the odds of a serious accident.

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Staying independent without wheels

Losing the ability to drive can be depressing for older Americans.

"Everyone looks forward to retiring, but retiring from driving — nobody wants that. You get a really strong emotional reaction from people when they can't drive independently anymore,” says Katherine Freund, president of ITNAmerica, in an interview with Morningstar. “It's as if when you can't move, nothing else matters.”

However, giving up driving doesn’t have to mean losing independence. Here are some ways seniors can stay active and engaged with their transportation:

Alternative transit options

Uber and Lyft offer convenient transportation, but services like GoGoGrandparent and SilverRide are designed with older adults in mind.

Other options include paratransit services and public transit, with many seniors qualifying for discounted or free rides. Community centers and libraries often provide transportation resources as well.

Preventing social isolation

According to the National Institute of Health, giving up driving is linked to social isolation among seniors. Staying socially engaged is important for seniors — whether by joining clubs, attending community events or hosting gatherings at home.

When transportation isn’t available, seniors should schedule regular phone calls or video chats with loved ones via FaceTime or Zoom. If feelings of isolation persist, it’s important to speak with a doctor, as social isolation is linked to serious health issues, including heart failure, obesity and dementia.

Explore adaptive technologies

For seniors who still drive but have received concerns from loved ones, adaptive technology may help extend their safe driving years.

Modern vehicles come equipped with lane assist, adaptive cruise control, night vision enhancements, and parking aids. Additionally, affordable modifications such as seatbelt grabbers, blind-spot mirrors and ergonomic cushions can make driving safer and more comfortable.

Make a transition plan

It’s important for older adults and their families to discuss driving safety before a crisis occurs. Having a plan for errands, appointments and social outings can ease the transition when driving is no longer an option.

Approaching the conversation with empathy — rather than confrontation — can help seniors feel less embarrassed and more willing to adjust to driving retirement. The National Highway Association provides tips on how to have “the driving talk” with aging loved ones.

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