‘My husband died at 38 and I’m so lonely at Christmas - just one thing makes me happy now’
Christmas is an exciting time for many, but it can also be a difficult period for some people. Dealing with loss or grief can impact people's perception of the festive period, along with other factors such as family issues or money. With this in mind, many people have shared their experiences online and provided tips for those experiencing similar emotions during Christmas.
Over on Reddit, a discussion emerged surrounding spending Christmas alone and how to fill your time adequately. One woman opened up about losing her husband just two years ago, and how this, combined with the loss of both of her parents, has impacted her Christmas experience.
Responding to the thread, she wrote: "I hear you! My parents are both dead, my husband died 2 years ago at age 38, and I have literally no family. BUT I do have our 5 year old, so I have put on a happy face and try to 'enjoy' Christmas. It's hard. And I feel so alone. I put a little effort into decorating. I put up a small tree. It feels a little festive but not overwhelming."
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She went on to list the different ways in which you can celebrate the holidays by giving back to others. She added: "You can shop for kids presents and donate them. I do Toys for Tots. Some places have giving trees and you can adopt a family to buy gifts for. Find a non-denominational church that has a Christmas service or play. I cook a small holiday meal of things I really like. Leftovers are ok. It's ok to watch a movie and take a nap. Go sledding if you have snow. Purchase little bags of candy or treats to give to people you find working the holiday. Wish them a Merry Christmas."
Other people also shared their own stories, with many revealing they still celebrate Christmas despite being on their own. One Reddit user said: "I've been spending Christmas on my own for over a decade now. My parents have both passed and I'm not close to my family who all live in a different state.
"While I do have a friend group, they all have family they visit and I'm not comfortable tagging along. Still love Christmas and celebrate it all month long. Actually planning on decorating my house for it this weekend."
Another advised "If you don’t want to be alone, I suggest doing some kind of volunteer work. You’ll feel fulfilled and like you’re doing something good for your holiday. Treat the day like a celebration of yourself, almost like a 'solo date'."
