Fair game or cheating? These bedroom boundaries are up for debate

“Harmless flirting” (51%), chatting with an ex (60%) and watching porn (23%) could make or break a relationship, according to new research. A survey of 2,000 sexually active adults explored the different “bedroom boundaries” that they have, finding that many consider those acts as “cheating” in a relationship. Those who put porn high on their list of duplicitous acts have strong feelings: 54% of these respondents think that it should be “banned” when a relationship gets serious. What’s acceptable? The survey conducted by Talker Research in partnership with LELO found that a majority agree that reading erotica (79%), masturbating or using sex toys (76%) and dancing with someone else (66%) are all fair game.