Devoted mum thought her three-year-old’s blurry eye was caused by a scratch from the family dog – but it was cancer causing her right eye to be removed

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A devoted mum whose three-year-old daughter had her right eye removed when what she thought was a minor injury caused by a scratch from the family dog was in fact cancer, says the news “ripped our world apart.”

Little Evie Wedderburn was just one in January 2020 when she was diagnosed with retinoblastoma – a rare type of eye cancer normally affecting children under five.

Despite gruelling chemotherapy and radiotherapy, she developed more tumours, according to her mum, Kara Wedderburn, 25, forcing her to have her eye surgically removed earlier this month.

Evie, mum Kara, dad Ryan and sister Olivia. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie, mum Kara, dad Ryan and sister Olivia. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

Now stay-at-home mum Kara, who lives in East Ord, Berwick-upon-Tweed, Northumberland, with her husband Ryan, 28, a financial planning assistant, and their daughters Evie and Olivia, one, said: “Being told she had cancer was just devastating.

“I was pregnant with Evie’s sister, Olivia, when she was diagnosed, and we felt like our world had been ripped apart.

“Evie was absolutely fine in herself – that was what was so frustrating. We had no idea what the signs were or what to be looking for, but we’d never even heard of retinoblastoma.”

Evie after cryotherapy. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie after cryotherapy. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

Former teaching assistant Kara first noticed a white glow to Evie’s right eye in December 2019.

She said: “At a certain angle, there was a white coating on Evie’s right eye.

“Our Labrador Callie had recently scratched her forehead accidentally and we thought she could have caught her eye on her paw.”

Evie at home. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie at home. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

When it failed to clear at the beginning of January, Kara took Evie to the GP, who quickly referred her to the Royal Victoria Infirmary, in Newcastle-Upon-Tyne, Tyne and Wear, from where, within days, she was sent to Birmingham Children’s Hospital.

Kara said: “We’d never heard of retinoblastoma and we were being told she was going to lose her eye because the tumour she had was that big.

“She was diagnosed at the RVI on January 13, and we were in Birmingham days later for her to be examined under anaesthetic on January 17.”

Evie with her radioactive eye plaque. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie with her radioactive eye plaque. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

She added: “Straightaway, we thought, ‘Well that’s it, her eye’s coming out,’ but they told us we could try and save it and that’s the route we went down.

“It was just such a shock. I’d been Googling as any mother does and thought, ‘It’s not going to be something like that.’

“Ryan and I were both just devastated. We couldn’t believe it.”

Evie with a radioactive plaque fitted to her eye. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie with a radioactive plaque fitted to her eye. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

Evie began her first of six rounds of chemotherapy in January, but sadly, in July, her parents were told the last two rounds had not worked and she needed intravitreal chemotherapy injected into her eye.

“The main tumour was looking good but still wasn’t dead,” Kara said.

“In November she had a radioactive plaque fitted to her eye and that worked really well. We were lucky that her tumour at the time was suited to that – as it has to be in a certain place.”

Evie with mum Kara, dad Ryan, and sister Olivia. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie with mum Kara, dad Ryan, and sister Olivia. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

Caught completely off-guard by Evie’s diagnosis, her parents had initially assumed chemotherapy would do the trick.

Kara said: “We didn’t understand the full impact of her cancer. We just thought she’d have the chemotherapy and be done with it.

“You just don’t know what it will be like until you’re going through it.”

Evie after her first round of chemotherapy. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie after her first round of chemotherapy. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

Sadly, in March 2021, another tumour was detected close to Evie’s optic nerve, which was discovered after Evie’s retina detached.

“That was in a really bad place,” Kara said. “She had to have an MRI scan and yet more treatment.

“They gave her intra-arterial chemotherapy which meant they put something in her groin, and it fed the drugs through a catheter into the eye to kill the tumour.”

Evie cuddling with Kara after her diagnosis. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie cuddling with Kara after her diagnosis. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

This was followed at the beginning of August by Evie developing eight smaller tumours further inside her eye, which were treated with more intravitreal chemotherapy.

Unfortunately, Evie then started experiencing new and distressing symptoms.

Kara said: “She developed a slight squint which we didn’t pick up on, but it turned out to be a sign of a new tumour being there.”

Evie excited to attend nursery. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie excited to attend nursery. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

She added: “We went swimming every weekend and one Saturday her eye flared up and went really red.

“She was in such a lot of pain with it, I took her to the doctor.”

Medics thought the little girl had chemical conjunctivitis or an allergic reaction, but none of the ointments or drops prescribed helped soothe her pain.

Evie with her mum Kara. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie with her mum Kara. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

Sent back to the hospital in September 2021, Kara and Ryan were told she had developed yet another tumour – this time at the front of her eye.

Kara said: “The eye had made new blood vessels with this tumour, which is why she was in so much pain.

“Her cancer was very aggressive. Every retinoblastoma is unique, but hers is very hard to control. Her optic nerve tumour doubled in size just in one week.”

Evie Wedderburn with a white glow in her eye, at the Royal Victoria Infirmary where she was given her diagnosis. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie Wedderburn with a white glow in her eye, at the Royal Victoria Infirmary where she was given her diagnosis. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

She added: “Even morphine wasn’t helping her. It was awful. They said we could try and treat it but we were risking Evie’s life if we tried as there was a chance it could spread. There was no other option.

“Evie’s health was the priority. You do wonder are we torturing her, should we keep going, but now she’s had the operation she’s like a different child.”

Evie had her eye removed on September 16, 2021, in a three-hour operation at Birmingham Children’s Hospital, and Kara said the difference in her is remarkable.

Evie seeing her sister Olivia again after four days in hospital. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie seeing her sister Olivia again after four days in hospital. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

“She was in so much pain and now that it’s out she’s like a different child,” she said.

“She’s so much happier and back to the usual Evie. It makes you feel like you’ve done the right thing.

“She would play with her sister and say, ‘Oh my eye, my eye,’ before the operation, as she couldn’t stand the pain.”

Evie going swimming with Kara. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie going swimming with Kara. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

She added: “It was so hard for us to watch as we couldn’t do anything but give her pain relief and it wasn’t helping. Now she sleeps through the night and wakes up happy – it’s amazing.”

Evie’s eye has been sent to a microscopic lab for testing and the family are awaiting the results to find out whether she will need any further chemotherapy or treatment.

She has a temporary prosthetic eye at the moment, and once her socket is healed will be fitted with a permanent replacement.

Evie on the train to her first treatment in Birmingham. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie on the train to her first treatment in Birmingham. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

Kara said: “Evie is such a special girl and deals with this journey so well. She is a truly extraordinary, amazing and inspiring girl and we are so, so proud of her.

“We would like to say a special thank you to Birmingham Children’s Hospital. Our consultant has been amazing and reassuring and we can’t thank him enough for everything.

“The staff are amazing with Evie and we wouldn’t have got through apportionments without them, while the support from the Childhood Eye Cancer Trust (CHECT) team has also been incredible.”

Evie with the family’s puppy, Bailey. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie with the family’s puppy, Bailey. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

She added: “Thank you also to all our family and friends for their continuous support, and especially to my mum Debbie. I couldn’t have got through it without her endless love and support.

“My advice to other people in this position is to go straight to your GP or local hospital if you suspect anything, as early diagnosis can mean a much quicker journey and a lot less invasive treatment for your child.

“You have to act fast with retinoblastoma. We went from having no understanding to learning many things along the way.”

Evie playing during chemotherapy. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie playing during chemotherapy. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

This month, for Childhood Cancer Awareness Month, the Childhood Eye Cancer Trust (CHECT) is urging parents and healthcare professionals to be aware of the most common possible symptoms of eye cancer – a white glow in the eye in a flash photo or other certain lighting conditions and a squint.

Patrick Tonks, Chief Executive of the Childhood Eye Cancer Trust said: “Retinoblastoma is rare, with around one baby or young child being diagnosed in the UK each week.

“Symptoms can be quite subtle and children often seem well in themselves, which can make it hard to diagnose. Sadly, in just under half of all cases, a child has to have an eye removed as part of their treatment.”

Evie Wedderburn with sister Olivia. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT
Evie Wedderburn with sister Olivia. PA REAL LIFE COLLECT

He added: “It is very important, as in Evie’s case, that symptoms are recognised and that a healthcare practitioner makes an urgent referral.”

For more information on the signs, symptoms, and treatment of retinoblastoma, please visit https://chect.org.uk/

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