Blogger uses a pair of tights to prove how easy it is to fake weight loss

A blogger has been sharing side-by-side selfies to show how easy it is to fake transformation shots [Photo: Instagram/selfloveclubb]
A blogger has been sharing side-by-side selfies to show how easy it is to fake transformation shots [Photo: Instagram/selfloveclubb]

Before and after pictures are fast becoming the backbone of Instagram particularly with those looking for some weightloss inspo. But transformation pictures are not always what they seem.

So one body positive blogger has made it her mission to show just how easy it is to fake those pre and post transformation pictures.

Step forward Milly Smith, a “selflove and body posi advocate” who documents her journey with her body through her Instagram account selfloveclubb. Milly has been busy posting a series of honest Instagrams to highlight how unrealistic posing on social media can affect our perception of our bodies.

In her latest post she shared two side by side selfies – one wearing control-top tights, and one with the tights worn just below her tummy, so it wasn’t being sucked in – explaining that it was all too easy to create desirable body shots depending on the angles, poses and props used.

“Same girl, same day, same time,” she wrote in the accompanying caption.

“Not a before and after. Not a weight loss transformation. Not a diet company promotion.”

“I am comfortable with my body in both. Neither is more or less worthy. Neither makes me more or less of a human being.”

Milly went on to explain that although she may look different, the two pictures were taken just minutes apart – highlighting the often deceptive nature of posed photos on social media, when you compare them with more relaxed images of the same person.

The blogger wanted to draw attention to the fact that so many of the pictures we see online are filtered, or altered in order to better represent a certain body type or shape and as a result this can give a skewed view of reality.

“We are so blinded to what a real unposed body looks like and blinded to what beauty is that people would find me less attractive within a 5 second pose switch! How insanely ridiculous is that!?” she continued.

RELAX (don't do it….????) I used to sit in positions to make myself appear slimmer. I would sit uncomfortably to avoid a roll or to avoid my thighs expanding to the size of Austria when I sit down (ya feel me?). ❤ My weight back then was my worth and if anything made me look bigger I instantly felt worthless. ❤️ I wouldn't ever relax unless I was in big baggy clothes that hid my changing shape as I sat. I wouldn't bathe so I didn't have to see rolls or skin flattened out by the bottom of the bath. I was literally and mentally very uncomfortable in my body. ❤ I still find myself worrying about this to a certain extent- I no longer let it affect my worth but it can still be a bit of a fear for me and can lead to a bad body image day. I've recently taken steps to really try and combat my feelings towards sitting and relaxing. ❤ A few evenings a week I have sat in my underwear or naked in front of a mirror or camera and just let myself sit in a comfortable position- I've allowed my body to just relax. It was uncomfortable to see at first but by the 3rd or 4th time I knew what to expect and suddenly it didn't seem to scary. ❤ I studied the movement and the way my body changed when it was unposed and relaxed; it felt freeing. I didn't try and like what I saw at first I just wanted to become accustom to it, to the changing shapes. The freeing feeling felt rather beautiful to me and I slowly started to love and appreciate my body relaxed, unposed and comfortable. I now practice it as often as I can to allow myself to transfer it to everyday life. ???? Don't let the way your body changes affect your view of it or yourself. Sitting, stretching and bending will all change your bodies shape and size temporarily and it's OK! It's natural and happens to everybody! Don't be afraid of it and don't spend your life uncomfortable because of it ???????? We are valid, worthy and powerful beyond measure ????

A photo posted by Milly Smith ????????☀️???? (@selfloveclubb) on Jan 26, 2017 at 9:11am PST

Milly, who has over 71.8K Instagram followers, revealed that she suffers from body dysmorphia but is determined to try to love her body the way it is.

“I love taking these, it helps my mind so much with body dysmorphia and helps me rationalise my negative thoughts,” she wrote.

The body positive advocate ended her post with an empowering message for others who might be struggling with their own self-image.

“Don’t compare, just live for you,” she said. “There is no one on this planet who’s like you and that’s pretty damn amazing don’t ya think. The world doesn’t need another copy, it needs you. We are worthy, valid and powerful beyond measure.”

So many of you thank me for doing the comparison photos, it breaks wall down and releases some of the pressure to look posed/photoshopped constantly. Different angles give us different shapes,different lighting sinks into our dimples or skims over them, different poses lengthen our stomach. It's life. We have this image of seeing Instagram models walking around looking exactly like they do in the posed photo, abs forever tensed, forever smiling, forever posed and not jiggling and we want that too. We see the comments and praise they get and crave that kind of validity. Making some silly connection between compliments and likes to our worth.. there is NO correlation. Our self worth is not defined by our weight or the shape of our body. We don't need to hold photos with high regards, we need to hold our selves with high regards. Your body will change, life changes and I'd rather roll with it than live a constant battle trying to stop it. Your body will fight to fit its own happy state, not the perceived happy state set onto us, put down the guns as it's a battle you won't win. I don't know one elderly person who's wished they'd spent more time on a diet, who'd wished they'd hated themselves more or who wished they'd spent more time not enjoying the things we deprive ourselves of to fit into an ideal (that ironically is forever changing too). Life isn't one square of pixels, it's a constant see of change with waves of bad and waves of good. A smooth sea never made a skilled sailor ???? You're worthy, valid and beautiful just the way you are.

A photo posted by Milly Smith ????????☀️???? (@selfloveclubb) on Dec 14, 2016 at 10:27am PST

And her followers were quick to step in and praise the blogger for positive stance.

“Such amazing words so happy to find this. Wow thank you for sharing the struggle is so real,” one follower wrote.

“I hope you know how much this helps me with accepting myself and how my body looks. You are truly inspiring,” added another.

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