Women Are Sharing The "Innocent" Things Men Do That They Find Dead-Sexy, And I Agree With Every One
Women of the BuzzFeed Community and on Reddit recently shared non-sexual, extremely sweet things that men do turn them on, and the list was so good that I had to include more here. Here is some of what women shared:
Note: Some of these responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.
1."Might just be me, but when a guy sort of hugs me from behind, but he drops his chin onto my shoulder, more like trapezius muscle, they don’t even know they’re doing it, but there’s something about it that makes me insanely wild, and they don’t even know it. Also, when they go to remove a T-shirt, and they pull it from the back over their head, I’m done."
2."Remembering little details. I told my boyfriend on our first date that I carry tiny bags while going out with people, and it's so sad that I can't fit a water bottle in them. That man has bought a water bottle with him on every single date in the last three years. When he talks about nerdy stuff and explains it in great detail, he is a physics professor, so I get many thermodynamics lessons on video calls."
3."When I ask him what he's thinking about, he just stares into my face, and he replies, 'How beautiful you are and how much I care about you!' When we walk together, and cars get close to me, he automatically puts his arm on me to protect me."
4."A man who would never try to make me afraid."
5."Driving a stickshift. My husband still drives a '90s model stickshift truck and has always driven manual vehicles in the past, even before we met. (We’re in our 40s, so it was super common back then). Something about a muscular arm working the gears is just hot for some reason. He’s also a chronic reverse parker and is a pro at it, and I never get tired of seeing him do it, lol. I’d be hitting things, and he does it like a knife slides through butter with zero effort. It’s one of those mundane, silly things I just admire about him. The last thing is the way he melts over babies, which just makes me grin ear to ear. He was never that way before our son was born, and now he can’t resist cute babies anywhere and everywhere. Big tough guy going to a puddle over infants. It’s so cute seeing him be a softie."
6."Intuitively recognizing that I need a mental break, he rounds up all the kids and takes them to the park to get them out of the house. That’s sexy AF."
7."Making me laugh, holding my hand, getting me something I didn’t ask for, cuddling. To be honest, they aren’t necessarily a turn-on for me, but they make me feel happier and safe to be with them, which can easily lead to being turned on more often."
8."My boyfriend that I have right now I have been dating for about three weeks, but have been talking for months. He got me a present for Christmas, and I can look at each item in the present specifically and recall the conversation we had where I would've said or implied that I liked that. It surprised me how he listened to what I said and said, 'I saw that and thought you would like it.' He is the sweetest guy I've ever met and isn't embarrassed to be vulnerable with me, and I'm not with him. If only more guys could be like that. He also constantly says the sweetest stuff to me all the time, which makes me feel beautiful and special."
"My last boyfriend did not do that for me. He never said anything nice ever, and we didn't really have any sensitive conversations. I guess that's just not the kind of guy he was. When I was dumping him, I asked him if he even cared anymore, and he said he didn't but just didn't know how to show it. Anyway, the main takeaway is to show THAT YOU CARE."
9."Must love dogs. When my boyfriend (now husband) and I got our first puppy together, he was adamant that she would not be in the kitchen, on the furniture, or in the bed with us (all things I grew up with). These 'rules' barely lasted four hours, and she slept with us that night. Now, he is more concerned about how our dogs are doing when we are away from them than I am most of the time! He greets them at the door with their pet names (not their actual names) and spends at least a minute loving them. One of the main reasons I love him."
10."There are times I'm getting dressed and buttoning up my shirt when my husband will walk over and finish the buttons himself. It's sweet and a turn-on."
11."My husband walks on the outside of the sidewalk with me still after 51 years married. That was considered good manners when we were young."
12."I'm weirdly excited that someone noticed 'putting their hand over corners so we don't get hurt.' Every time I open the car door for my wife, my hand is on the corner of the door. Opening a cabinet? My hand is on the edge she's most likely to hit. etc. It goes along with me always walking nearer to railings so she can't fall, being on the lower step on an escalator so I can catch her if needed, etc."
"For all the BS you see online from jerks trying to define 'being a man' in a way that excuses their bad behavior, I'm quite simply around to make things better than if I wasn't around, which means both little things and big things."
13."When my late husband and I moved into our first home, the backyard had a gazillion violets. I loved it so much, but eventually, it was time to cut the grass, and I mentioned I would be sad to see my pretty violets go. Late husband jacked up the lawn mower to let me keep them, he had to mow twice as often that spring/summer because of it, but I got to enjoy the field of violets."
14."Acts of service! Like when a guy opens the door for you when you don’t expect him to or helps you carry things even if you’re not asking for help. Suddenly popping up out of nowhere then lending a hand is."
15."Intentionally roll up and cuff their shirt sleeves."
16."My very British husband brings me tea in bed every morning. It’s a lovely way to start the day."
17."One time, I put my adorable TokiDoki bag on the ground at an arcade, and my boyfriend sat down in a chair, picked it up, and held it himself. I asked him why he did that, and he said, 'I didn’t want your bag on the floor.' THE SWEETEST THING EVER."
18."My boyfriend and I each have separate interests and hobbies that the other person isn't too into, but because the other is so passionate about it, it makes us happy and excited for each other, and I adore it."
19."Being thoughtful when you’re down, like sick, on period, or after something hard like surgery. Had surgery last week, and a guy I’m newly dating mailed me a care package of super thoughtful things: a blanket, socks, nice skincare, a mug, and tea. Made my day."
20."Them doing things or buying treats for your dog or pet is even better than doing it for you."
21."I am grateful when I come home after work, and there is a meal prepared or being prepared. It’s so thoughtful and sexy."
22.And finally, "I love it when a male friend kisses my hand when greeting me. It makes me feel special."
Ladies and men, what do you think of this? Anything else anyone could add? Share it all with me in the comments below!
