18 of the best sex toys for couples to guarantee mutual orgasms
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If you've been with your partner(s) for any length of time, you will know that shared orgasms are not a guaranteed outcome in the bedroom. Sure, if you're both feeling really turned on and the planets align tonight it might be achievable. But contrary to popular opinion, reaching climax in unison is not always that easy to achieve.
Fortunately for you, we have found the solution just in time for Valentine's Day – because when else would it be more appropriate to get your pleasure synced up? The sex tech industry spotted this gaping hole in the market and now you can buy sex toys designed with you and your partner in mind. But it's not just about reaching the end goal. You can now buy sex toys to fire up your foreplay, offer some new ideas and send pulsing vibrations straight to your most sensitive parts.
And no, sex toys are not designed to replace or one-up your penis-having partner. We've yet to meet any man who can make his tongue vibrate on demand. Instead, they're all about scaling up the sensations and making it easier to reach orgasm in glorious unison.
But to save you time scouring those virtual shelves for a third party, we've tracked down the very best sex toys for couples. We're talking vibrating cock rings, sex position dice and even bumper packs for those who don't really know where to start.
The best sex toys for couples to shop now, at a glance:
Best Bumper Kit: Lovehoney Wild Weekend Mega Couple's Sex Toy Kit
Best Wearable Tech Couples Sex Toy: LELO TIANI 3 Remote-Controlled Couples’ Massager
Best Cock Ring for Clit Stimulation: Ann Summers Rampant Rabbit Vibrating Cock Ring
Best Nipple Sucker: Lovehoney Colourplay Colour-Changing Silicone Nipple Suckers
Best Clit Favourite for Couples: Lovehoney Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator
Two, plus one, equals major fun. Here's what's on our wish list right now — keep scrolling for the full edit.
The benefits of sex toys for couples
There are some major benefits to bringing sex toys into the bedroom, including doses of dopamine, stress release and even feeling emotionally closer to your partner. Plus, they're a really good way of communicating what you do (and don't) like.
Still not convinced? Then hear it from an expert.
'Quite simply, toys do things our bodies alone can’t,' says Anna Richards, sex expert, pleasure positivity educator and founder of ethical sex platform, frolicme.com.
'Sex toys help enhance pleasure and your overall sexual experience through specific, increased, frequent and consistent stimulation,' she adds. 'It is widely accepted that less than 25% of women can achieve orgasm through penetration alone, so we clitoris-owners rely on additional intense sensations to help us climax.
'Other accessories can also help switch up the fun during partnered play by finding ways of stirring your senses, such as using a blindfold for some kinky play through sensory deprivation.'
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Wild Weekend Mega Couple's Sex Toy Kit
Why pick and choose when you can literally have it all?
This 11-piece Lovehoney bumper pack kits you out with all the basics, including cock rings, a rampant rabbit, handheld masturbator and beginner-friendly anal beads – great if you're still trying to work out what you both like... or love. Just be sure to load up on lube and a six-pack of AA batteries first.
One happy husband shared that his naughty-but-nice purchase led to 'multiple orgasms and wet sheets.' Jel.
TIANI 3 Remote-Controlled Couples’ Massager
Looking for a premium route to pleasure? Swedish sex tech brand LELO designed this C-shaped toy, packed with two powerful motors, to send delicious vibrations to your C- and G-spots, and up the length of his dong too.
It's also built with hands-free fun (or power play, no judgement here) in mind, thanks to the addition of a remote-control.
This can be a little intense for beginners, so consider giving it a go solo first – and load it up with lube, because comfort is key.
One fan shared, 'I had the most intense orgasm of my life with the first use.' Challenge accepted.
Rampant Rabbit Vibrating Cock Ring
We’ve said it before and we'll say it again – all heterosexual couples need a cock ring in their kit. It's a super versatile toy designed to be used during the warm-up and the main event, with benefits for all those involved.
Take this budget-friendly Ann Summers offering. Not only will the stretchy silicone ring help your partner-with-a-penis enjoy a more intense erection, but the (thoughtful) addition of vibrating rabbit ears means clitoral stimulation is guaranteed too.
Plus, to save you time reaching for another toy, ask your partner to wrap this one round their digits – yep, it'll work as a finger vibrator too. Enjoy.
Colourplay Colour-Changing Silicone Nipple Suckers
Who said all the action had to happen downstairs? Stop skipping over a key erogenous zone and give your nipples the pleasure they deserve with these Lovehoney suckers.
Built with BDSM beginners in mind, they couldn't be simpler to use. Just place them over your nipples (not before coating them in your favourite water-based lube), and squeeze.
Another pump will amp up the pressure and pleasure, so feel free to experiment – but only for about 10 minutes or so.
Sync O Remote and App-Controlled Couple's Vibrator
We all have those days where even solo pleasure is a little too much effort. Luckily, this is where hands-free toys come in really, well, handy.
We-Vibe remote-controlled couples vibe has had a simple upgrade to tackle the problem of the C-shape sliding out of place. Thanks to that unique O-shaped internal arm, this not only surrounds your sweet spot, sending vibrations exactly where you need them, but also stops it from moving about.
Simply squeeze the O together, slip the (10-speed) vibrator into your vagina, then lay back and enjoy the powerful tremors. Designed with blended orgasms in mind, it'll hit your clitoris in the process – and send sweet vibrations up your partner's perineum too. Bingo.
One review raved, 'Wow! This really made my partner moan (with delight)'. Sold.
Pleasure No1 - The Seed
Now this might look like nothing more than a pebble, but we’re pretty sure it’ll rock your world.
Yep, this clever clitoral stimulator from luxury London-based brand Coco De Mer has been designed to target your most sensitive parts with precision focus, thanks to the two mini rabbit ears.
With two motors and two layers of cushioned silicone for extra comfort, this is a seriously premium route to pleasure – reinforced by the fact that every single toy arrives in a luxe vegan-leather carry case. We're obsessed.
Bejewelled Red Silicone Heart Butt Plug
What's the best way to show your lover that you really care and you're also kinky AF? Pop in a heart-shaped butt plug and bend over, baby.
Available in three sizes, from a petite 2.5 inches up to a gasp-worthy 3.5, this silicone probe will work for both beginners and the experienced. Thanks to its tapered shape and flared base, this one is super easy to use – and, according to fans, stays put even during the most athletic of sessions.
Start by generously loading up the tapered tip with lube before asking your partner to slide it in.
Blue Silicone Anal Probe
Anal sex is no longer a taboo subject – so now we can all admit to enjoying the benefits of massaging the many nerve endings hiding up there.
And if you're new to bum fun, investing in an anal probe is a great place to start. With seven beads that promise to massage your hot spots on the way in and out, prepare for serious pleasure all round.
And remember: the rectum is not self-lubricating and dry friction will smart a bit, so don't forget to apply plenty of lube.
TOR 3 Vibrating Couples’ Ring
Two words will convince you to invest in this brilliant sex toy: clitoral stimulation.
That's right folks, while penises are great, they don't always hit the sweet spot during penetrative sex, so slide on this vibrating cock ring for just the right amount of clitoral pressure and prepare to cum, hard.
This one benefits your penis-having partner too. The stretchy silicone ring ensures a stronger, more intense erection – and the same can be said for their orgasm intensity. We also like using this one to tease, so consider brushing it across all their feel-good zones.
Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator
This rose-shaped clitoral suction stimulator isn't, strictly speaking, designed with couples in mind. But watching you roll around in bliss will *definitely* turn your partner on, whether they’re in control or sitting back watching you pleasure yourself. So much better than the few seconds of enjoyment they'll see you get from a 'real' bunch of (frankly, overpriced) roses.
It comes with 10 suction modes, all within easy reach thanks to the two-button controls. Just be prepared to finish first – and fast.
Still not convinced? Our in-house tester is still talking about how good it is.
Position of the Week Dice
Trust us on this one; browsing the Kama Sutra mid-move is a serious mood killer. Instead, roll these saucy dice for instant inspo, whether that's a new position, location or kink to give a go. Examples include 'doggy', 'bedroom', and 'loud as you like'.
Pocket-sized and without the need for recharging or batteries, these are great for those planning an adult adventure away. Or keeping in your bedroom drawer for a regular dose of spontaneity.
Just a heads up – these have been designed with heterosexual couples in mind, but most positions can be enjoyed in any sexual scenario. Simply add a strap on or head for the backdoor.
Chances are your partner will love them.
Lush 2 App Controlled Love Egg Vibrator
For the tech-savvy kinksters among you who enjoy a bit of power-play, this clever sex toy can be controlled remotely by you or your partner.
Simply insert your love egg during the day, download the app and start the Bluetooth fun and games. With almost five hours of play per charge, plus three speeds and four pulsing modes to choose from, you will be on your knees by lunchtime.
But the best part: you can sync the vibrations to your favourite tunes. Like we needed another excuse to listen to Harry Styles on repeat.
The Neighbor
Ready for a backstage pass to intense P-spot pleasure? Smile Makers' newest release is this pretty-in-purple anal vibrator, packed with three speeds and two pulsing patterns.
But what's the main reason we suggest investing in this backdoor buddy? Because anal toys can also bring on a G-spot orgasms, and we know you're a fan of those.
Yep, this'll push against the vaginal wall, as well as your perineal sponge — which with continued use, could also result in a tighter feel for your plus-one.
$34.95 at smilemakerscollection.com
Pulse Duo
Billed as the world's first 'guybrator', this shaft vibe from Hot Octopuss is designed to send moreish vibrations straight to his frenulum (the hot spot on the underside of your partner's penis).
But it's not just designed for solo fun – penis and vulva-owners alike simply need to climb on/ under and await instant pleasure from the remote-controlled second motor.
Consider this your answer to more-interesting missionary, doggy and spooning. Plus, it's held in place by body weight, so you don't have to worry about adjusting the toy, or yourself, in the middle of a steamy sesh!
TIANI Harmony Dual-Action Couples’ Massager
There's a reason LELO features a couple of times in this line up. The Swedish pleasure providers take our favourite toys and add some premium touches, including long-lasting charge, super-soft silicone and the ability to control them via an easy-to-use app.
But there's way more to the TIANI Harmony than meets the eye. Thanks to powerful dual motors this couple's massager has been designed to send delicious vibrations to both your sweet spots – and it works.
Slather it in your favourite water-based lube (we're big fans of LELO's), slide it inside and invite your partner-with-a-penis to join in on the fun.
Triathlon 3-Way Rabbit Vibrator
Why choose between sex toys that target either your clitoris, G-spot or perineum when you can buy one toy that massages them all?
With motorised clit-stroking rabbit ears, a G-spot stimulator and a buzzing beaded anal probe to contend with, this sex toy from Bondara is built with blended orgasms in mind. Plus, the loop-style handle makes it super easy to hold, no matter what compromising position you're in.
One shopper suggested, 'This toy guarantees hard orgasms every time.' Sold.
Ultimate Wand Massager Vibrator
Tried, tested and approved by our friends at the Good Housekeeping Institute, this massage wand is technically a spellbinding solo sex toy.
But trust us: apply gentle pressure to your hotspots while enjoying sex with your other half and you are guaranteed to scream [insert partner's name] all night long.
To double up your orgasmic fun, switch it up and use the head for an orgasmic clitoral massage or the tapered end to enter G-spot heaven.
Power Petal 2-in-1 Clitoral Suction Stimulator with Thrusting Egg Vibrator
Believe us when we say you absolutely need a love egg in your sex kit — it's ideal for a round of solo play or a steamy sesh with your partner. Plus, it'll help you work on your pelvic floor, meaning bigger and bolder orgasms.
This one from Lovehoney is a little different thanks to its unique thrusting-action. Yep, one end of this dual-action toy is meant to mimic your partner's penis, hitting your G-spot, while the other stimulates your clit with (frankly, delicious) air pulsations.
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