Always tactful, pleasing and diplomatic - they can fit in anyplace, anytime, with anyone. Shape-shifting is almost a sport to Libra, and they enjoy mingling and socialising with different squads and crews. You can find them lounging and flirting anywhere - being the centre of attention and loved by all around.
Libras love to think, analyse, ponder and dissect stuff, which makes them champion procrastinators too. They love to take an objective viewpoint, find the fairest solution to any issue, and enjoy learning new information. They need mental stimulus.
They hate mess, chaos, disorder and conflict, and that is where their uber-diplomacy comes in real handy.
To get an idea of the classic Libran personality traits and types, we need only to look to some of the most famous autumn babies: Kim Kardashian, Serena Williams, Bella Hadid, Cardi B, Gwen Stefani and Halsey.
Typical Libra personality traits
DIPLOMATIC (read: shape shifters)
Librans strive for everything to be smooth-sailing and plain seas, and can pour oil on troubled waters, build bridges, and mend fences like a pro-diplomat. Srsly, maybe ALL world leaders should be Libran (instead of the godamn Scorpios, Sagittarians, Leos and Geminis we keep getting…)
That said, all their empathy, listening, deep-down understanding blah blah can mean their own opinions and desires get lost in the wash, indeed sometimes they may not even really know their own mind. You may have Libran pals whose company you love, but whose values and opinions you couldn’t, if pressured, articulate. Nor could they (though they’ll know yours).
GREAT LISTENER (read: gossip queens)
Air signs love information, news and education. They soak up the world around them like a big brainy sponge. Librans are no exception, but what they tend to do with this information represents a conflict in their character: the urge and need to gossip. On the one hand, they kinda know it’s going to backfire and they hate to be disliked and they ABHOR conflict and confrontations. BUT, on the other hand, that’s all in a hypothetical distant future. Right here, right now, the easiest way to impress/humour/cajole the person in front of them is to drop a juicy goss-bomb. So that is what they do. Can’t help it nu-uh.
A WEIGHER-UPPER (read: entitled)
Librans strive for fairness and justice constantly, and they love the law. They deconstruct every situation with their little legal eagle brain and pick over the debris, organising right from wrong. However, there’s a flaw in their wiring, and that is that they ALL (to a fault) are biased in their own favour. So, when they’re carefully, painstakingly explaining why they should take the bigger room (OBVS) and you get the cubicle over the cesspit, well, in their own mind, it DOES make sense. To everyone else? Nope.
IDEALIST (read: indecisive)
It KILLS Libra to fully, 100% commit to something if there’s more than one option- even if it’s something as innocuous as a milkshake flavour. They always want the best experience and they believe, through logic and rationale and analysis, they can actually create ‘perfect pathways’ through life, sidestepping dodgy meals, hop-skipping queues, avoiding non-air con’d venues etc… This nitpicking over-thinking of every darned thing is apt to drive partners and friends/family of Librans up the wall. My sister is a Libra. I know...
LOVES BEAUTIFUL THINGS (read: shallow)
If it looks good to Libra, it is good. End of. Beauty is skin-deep. Thank you and good night.
What are Libras into?
Shopping. Buying new stationery/shoes/skincare/underwear/candles/flavoured coffee etc is like instant access to happiness for Libra. They have impeccable taste and like elegant, good quality, coveted pieces which they can showcase (*ahem* show OFF) to others.
Being in luurrvve. Libra hates to be alone - except when they’re writing a list (which is a frequent, and also intense, activity). They like to do everything with someone by their side, and ideally that someone is an object of affection. Librans loved to be loved, be in love, and love others. They’re that friend that ghosts you when they get a new partner. See ya Libra - Cupid’s hostage.
Mediating. Getting all up in other people’s business is catnip. Especially when there’s a *thorny issue* to be unpicked and unravelled and sorted out. As long as none of the drama is going to blow back on them (conflict is a no-no) they will happily wade into and help resolve any and all issues.
DIY/cleaning. Beautifying their surroundings is #goals. Mrs Hinch is like a Goddess to Libra, albeit they’d MUCH prefer ‘others’ did the doing while they ‘direct’ (their *faultless* logic will justify this somehow). This is what a Libran’s partner is for. Part sex slave/part skivvy.
Overthinking. They could make it into the Olympic team for over-thinkers.
Librans are ruled by Venus, the goddess of love, so they adore beautiful things and culture, and seek perfect balance and harmony in all areas of their life. Librans are one of the most charming, beautiful and flirtatious sign. If you know one, chances are you’re attracted to them! Attractive traits include:
Their Venus planetary ruler gives them a head-start when it comes to flirting and emitting sexy signals.
They know just the right thing to say at the right time, they have effortless grace and tact.-
They love smiling! Librans always look pleasant and serene (even when they’re NOT).
Who gets on best with Libra?
Libra and Taurus are both ruled by Venus so they share a liking for beauty, the arts, self-indulgence and pleasure. Srsly, get these two together and they could shop, eat, drink and bonk their way through 24:7. Champion Indulgers, a dangerous combo!
The Air sign posse also naturally click with each other, and love to chat, debate and discuss anything and everything - so Gemini, Aquarius and Libra make for wonderful companions. Libra is probably the most earthily passionate of the trio, but can still provoke great chemistry with the other two.
The hot tip for hot sex for Libra is Aries (ruled by Mars, so this is a ‘when Mars met Venus’ story). Aries challenges, amuses and stimulates Libra and can keep up on the romance and passion front too.
Libra is one of the nicest signs and they’re good people to be around (unless they’re getting to you to DO their stuff for them - watch out for that wonky, self-justifying logic…). We all need a lil harmony in our lives and Librans bring it in buckets.
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