21 Everyday Struggles That Wealthy People Just Don't Understand

Do you remember this iconic Arrested Development quote-turned-meme? It's a tale as old as time; People with lots of money have no idea what real life is actually like for most people.

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So when Reddit user u/gotwire posted, "What is something that poor people do that rich people are oblivious to?" on the r/AskReddit subreddit, it's no surprise that it received over 5,000 responses.

Here are 21 realities of everyday life that rich people are wholly oblivious to:

1."Waiting for everything. Waiting for the bus to arrive, because it’s always late. Taking longer to travel farther to the cheaper store. Waiting at the laundromat for your clothes to finish."

Person sits alone on a bench at a modern bus stop, reading a book

2."Calculating the items in your cart before going to checkout."

Hand placing cereal box in shopping cart with various groceries, including canned goods and pasta sauce, on a tiled grocery store floor

3.And similarly, "Checking your bank account balance in the checkout line."

Person handing a smartphone to a cashier for payment in a retail setting

4."When buying anything or paying a bill, I automatically convert it to how many hours of work it took to pay for it."

Person holding a paper receipt in one hand and a smartphone showing a calculator with 6.50 on the screen in the other hand

5."I make or turn down plans based on the cost of restaurants/activities/cover."

A hand places a rolled dollar bill into a jar labeled "2025," suggesting saving money for the future

6."Choosing to put up with pain and not going to the doctor because you can't afford the bill."

Person sitting on bed, hunched over, holding their stomach in apparent discomfort. A phone is nearby

7."Adding potatoes to meals not because they belong in a recipe, but because they're very filling and can stretch the meal to more portions."

Plate of baked hasselback potatoes garnished with herbs

8."I just don’t travel. The number of people amazed when I say I haven’t flown on a plane blows my mind. People do not realize how much money/privilege it takes to travel at all, let alone every year."

Open suitcase with sand and mini beach setup, including deck chairs and toys, on a bed, symbolizing vacation or work-life balance

9."Deciding which bill(s) to ignore because there is no money."

Person with head in hands, sitting at a table with credit cards and a calculator, appearing stressed or worried

10."People who don't keep fast food napkins in the glove box to use as tissues are in a totally different tax bracket."

Car door pocket filled with crumpled tissues and wrappers, highlighting clutter in a work-related travel scenario

11."Cutting open the toothpaste to scrape out every last bit."

A nearly empty toothpaste tube is tightly rolled and placed on a countertop, showcasing efficient use of product

12."Keeping living quarters at 55 degrees all winter."

Person wearing a hat and red jacket works on a laptop at home, sitting at a dining table with plants and framed photos on the wall

13."I know what gas costs at several stations on my regular route, so I always pay the least."

Gas station sign showing prices: Regular $3.59, Extra $2.89, Supreme $3.09, Diesel $2.89. Open 24 hours

14."Paying excessive overdraft fees."

Person holding credit cards while using a calculator on a desk, symbolizing personal finance management

15."I'll say I already ate, just so I can join my friends when they go out and feel normal for a minute, without making things awkward."

Three women enjoy lunch at a restaurant, smiling and talking over drinks and food, suggesting a friendly work-related meeting or casual business lunch

16."Shopping at different groceries for different items because they are cheaper elsewhere."

Person with a shopping cart stands in front of a refrigerated shelf filled with milk bottles in a grocery store

17."That whole 'we all have the same 24 hours' thing angers me every time I hear it. Rich people have a whole support network of other people who do their busy work for them."

An hourglass with sand trickling down, symbolizing the passage of time and its relation to work and productivity

18."Adding water to the last bit of dish soap to make it last longer."

Person pouring dish soap from a bottle near a kitchen sink faucet

19."Driving with an engine light on."

Close-up of a car dashboard showing a red battery icon, oil can icon, and "Check Engine" light illuminated next to the speedometer

20."We sell our blood for money."

A person donates blood, holding a stress ball, seated in a medical chair with equipment nearby, highlighting the process of blood donation

21.And finally, "How much poor people truly despise rich people, even the ones who suck up to them and play nice."

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What do you think? Did these ring true to you? Were there any that this list was missing?

Let me know in the comments!

Note: Some submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.