15 tips for orgasmic car sex

Rhalou Allerhand
·8-min read
Photo credit: Fuse - Getty Images
Photo credit: Fuse - Getty Images

Car sex is usually reserved for horny teens, sex workers, cheating spouses and the movies. But if you struggle to find a private place to get intimate with your lover at home, you think the idea of car sex is seriously kinky, or you’re simply curious about how it works, with a few pointers we can help you transform your motor into a passion wagon!

Follow our 15 tips for getting your leg over in the back seat (or the front- if you can fit) and learn how to enjoy safe and fun sex in your car:

1. Oil the wheels

The first stop on the road to great car sex is finding a willing partner(s) to share your journey. If you're in a relationship, discuss your fantasy with your lover in advance so there are no surprises on the night. Talking about your sexual desires also serves as great foreplay, so discuss your kinky vehicular plans in detail before the main event and you might find you're even more raring to go.

2. Take is solo

If you don't have a significant other but you're still keen to experiment with car sex, masturbating is the next best thing. Just remember, your local copper may take less kindly to one person having a wank in public versus horny young lovers caught in a sexy tryst, so if you're taking it solo make sure you masturbate discreetly where you won't get caught.

3. Pick the spot

If you don’t want to get caught by the Old Bill/your Mum then parking in front of your own house is also not a good start to your car sex adventures. Do your research in advance and find a private spot where you won’t get disturbed, such as a dimly lit carpark or a quiet country road. Research local dogging spots so you don’t accidentally find yourself in a crowd of sex tourists (unless that sort of thing turns you on) and get ready to cruise.

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Photo credit: Andersen Ross - Getty Images

4. Pimp your ride

Your first sojourn into car sex will no doubt be a quickie, but if you decide you really enjoy vehicular kink and it’s a hobby that you’re keen to pursue, it might be worth pimping your ride to ensure it’s comfortable and private for all parties involved.

‘If you find yourselves regularly having car sex you may wish to invest in some car curtains,’ suggests Tatyana Dyachenko, Sex and Relationship Therapist for Peaches and Screams. ‘These can be a simple as some material cut to the shape of your window that attach over your windows with Velcro for added privacy.’

Alternatively get your windows blacked out, add a few comfortable blankets and away you go! Steaming up the windows with air-con can also provide a bit of privacy and adds to the cinematic romp vibes.

5. Music sets the mood

Once you've found your pleasure spot, agreed the parameters with your lover in advance and parked up, now is the time to set the mood. Nothing sets the scene for orgasmic car sex like a well-chosen playlist, so choose your erotic songs carefully. We recommend:

  • Climax by Usher

  • I Want Your Sex by George Michael

  • Rocks Off by the Rolling Stones

  • Need You Tonight by INXS

  • No Diggity by Blackstreet

  • Pony by Ginuwine

  • Absolutely anything ever made by Prince

  • And last but not least, Pull Up to the Bumper by Grace Jones

6. Come prepared

For a guaranteed steamy sex session it always pays to come prepared, so secrete a tube of lube, your best sex toys and a packet of wet wipes under the front seats to get the party started. ‘Keep a stash of lube in your car,’ suggests Dyachenko. ‘You never know when you might need a bit of extra lubrication so keep a stash of lube in your car, so you're always prepared. I'd also advise having an after-sex wipe-up towel handy too. You don't want to ruin the interior of your car with bodily fluids!’ We're big fans of the Desire Luxury Rechargeable Vibrating Double Love Ring to guarantee orgasms all-round.

7. Dress for the occasion

Easy access is the aim of the game when it comes to car sex, so either keep your clothes on and wear something featuring well-placed zips with access to the relevant areas, or opt for easily removable kit like sportswear or a tiny little dress.

‘Wear clothing that is easily accessible like shorts, a dress or a skirt,’ suggests Dyachenko. ‘This will make the whole process easier especially due to the lack of space for undressing. Keeping your clothes on will also make it less obvious to people about what you're up to.'

8. Position is everything

The next step to successfully getting jiggy in a vehicle is finding the perfect sex position. Most cars are not designed with sex in mind, so if you're driving an old school Fiat 500 you might struggle with leg room, and nothing kills the mood quite like getting your limbs stuck before you’ve even managed to get to second base. So, what are the best tried and tested car sex positions?

❤️ Car seat sex: The easiest position is if one of you sits in the front seat and moves the chair all the way back, says Dyachenko. 'The other partner can then straddle you cowgirl/boy style, but if you have a car with a particularity low ceiling this may not work due to lack of height!'

❤️ Doggy style: 'Another good position to try is doggy style on the back seat,’ she adds, so bend over on the backseat and enjoy a good pounding.

❤️ Reverse cowgirl: A good position if you have access to a sunroof, back up on to your lover and ride them with both of you facing forwards, using hands to stroke each other into ecstasy.

❤️ Missionary: Don't rule out the classic missionary position. It might not be wildly kinky, but now is the time to make the most of the space at your disposal and enjoy the ride.

9. Take it to the back

Unless you drive an executive class Audi A8 you might struggle for leg room upfront, so head to the backseat where you can roll around a bit more. Head rests also provide handy footing for a good old backseat hump, so make use of the tools at hand and enjoy yourself.

Photo credit: Nick Dolding - Getty Images
Photo credit: Nick Dolding - Getty Images

10. Grab that gearstick

If you own a tiny car or you’re blessed with a really big booty and the idea of riding cowgirl/boy is logistically impossible, stick to foreplay. Mutual masturbation can be seriously sexy in any scenario, so try touching each other (or yourself) and see how it feels. Simply being in a car with your lover in a frisky mood can be pretty damn sexy and a quick rub might be all it takes to get you both off.

11. Oral sex wins

We couldn't have a kinky car list without mentioning oral sex could we? Fellatio and front seats go together like strawberries and cream, so we strongly encourage you give it a whirl. But don't forget that clitorises need love too, so bend over and return the favour. If you struggle to access your partner's vagina with your mouth, put the seats down and persevere.

12. Belt up!

Once you’ve found the right location, done your prep work and licked each other into a frenzied state, now is the time to get steamy! Provided you’ve found a comfortable spot where you won’t get disturbed then car sex can be pretty kinky. ‘A car naturally has the perfect bondage setup!’ says Dyachenko. ‘Use the seat belts to your advantage and restrain your partner with them. Ramp it up a notch and blindfold them for heightened pleasure.’

13. Speed is of the essence

Once all the elements are in place and your car is ready to enter the tunnel (so to speak) you may be relieved to hear that speed bodes well for you when it comes to steamy car sex, so don't be afraid to blow your gasket in record time. You stand a much better chance of not getting caught if you're speedy, and you can always do it again another night, so hurry up and park that bad boy.

14. Don't have sex in a moving car

We hate to dampen your spirits, but we do need to mention a few important safety measures. The idea of rumpy pumpy in a speeding car might sound rock n roll, but it also drastically increases your chances of death, so don’t do it.

‘Obviously you need the car to be stationary,’ says Dyachenko. ‘Don't ever attempt to have any form of car sex while the car is moving as that is incredibly dangerous.’

15. Obey the law

There is no specific UK law against having sex in your car provided you’re not in public, but if you got caught you could get prosecuted for public indecency or exposure, so discretion is key.

'Check what the law sates about car sex in your area,' says Dyachenko. 'Every area and country is different and some places consider car sex a much more serious offence than others. The last thing you want is to end up getting arrested.'

Last updated: 30-04-2021

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